30 Days Of Blogging Honesty: Day 14

Because my parents never found out, I remember getting away with __________ as a teenager…

A whole lot as a teenager. I wish I could end it there because some how the past seems to haunt me, but it is my own fault. When I was a teen I was what is commonly known in today’s vernacular as a sexual predator. I was a voyeur, a pervert, a peeping (here’s the funny part), Tom. I used to spy on, photograph and otherwise watch my sister’s friends in all stages of undress (watch, photograph and record). Nothing I am proud of, but I can mention it here today because I am not that person. That is about as honest as anyone can get during these 30 days – or at least I hope nobody has anything worse to tell.


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  1. #1 by Miko on April 20, 2012 - 3:19 AM

    The ‘peeping tom’ made me laugh. That is just bad-ass :D I guess everyone this part of your life is just one of the moments in your life as you grow up. Just think of it as one of your crazy experiences that you can laugh at too whenever you remember it :D

    • #2 by Tom Baker on April 23, 2012 - 11:06 AM

      I’m glad you got a laugh out of this Miko. I try to be funny. Try is the appropriate word.

  2. #3 by terriblethinker on April 18, 2012 - 8:08 PM

    I think this is a part of life and growing up. Attraction for the other sex is something which happens to everyone. :-) Take it easy.

    • #4 by Tom Baker on April 19, 2012 - 2:02 AM

      I suppose you are right. Thanks.

  3. #5 by bannatreasures on April 18, 2012 - 4:13 PM

    Cleverrr “peeping Tom” ahha. I remember reading this in a book that had a green cover and was something about stream of consciousness and Dublin. Ah.. stuff they made us read in high school..

    • #6 by Tom Baker on April 19, 2012 - 2:01 AM

      High school and peeping Tom’s don’t really go together.

  4. #7 by prysmatique on April 17, 2012 - 11:03 PM

    Damn, it’s so big of you to confess that, and I’m glad you grew out of that stage. Maybe most of the girls knew and flaunted it anyway!

    • #8 by Tom Baker on April 18, 2012 - 9:06 AM

      A huge percentage of what I did transpired while they were asleep and after they had been drinking. Only one or two caught on to what I did and I think made a point to sleep over a lot! In the world of today with cell phone cameras and people posting every thing on the internet, I don’t think those two would be so ‘photogenic’ if you know what I mean.

      • #9 by prysmatique on April 18, 2012 - 1:39 PM

        Whatever, modern society’s version of “beauty” is so overrated.

        • #10 by Tom Baker on April 18, 2012 - 2:16 PM

          No, I wasn’t talking about beauty when I said photogenic. What I meant is that if they the two girls really knew what I was doing, for fear of my posting the photos of them half naked or naked on the internet, they would not be so willing to flaunt their bodies for me.

          • #11 by prysmatique on April 18, 2012 - 2:30 PM

            Oh I guess that makes sense. Yeah times were really different.

  5. #12 by ambrosiapeyton on April 17, 2012 - 9:00 PM

    I am struggling with the very same issue. Thankfully not to this degree but I like to watch (spy) on my brother’s friends. I hope to grow out of this soon. I’ve never heard of Porky’s but this is a great trailer.

    • #13 by Tom Baker on April 18, 2012 - 9:04 AM

      Like I told you before, it is odd to find a female with this issue and I know it is something you will grow out of. Rent Porky’s this weekend and watch it with your brothers. They will love you for it!

  6. #14 by Micah on April 17, 2012 - 2:30 PM

    Whew! I was expecting something more tame. But when I read your answer, I found myself actually admiring you for being THAT honest. I think it’s a phase that every teenage boy goes through (whether they admit it later on in their lives or not). What’s important is you’ve overcome that stage already . You did, didn’t you? Lol

    • #15 by Tom Baker on April 17, 2012 - 2:55 PM

      Yes, I’m finished with that phase.

  7. #16 by savesprinkles1234 on April 17, 2012 - 2:17 PM

    That’s a lot of honesty! My brother admitted to me that he used to make out with my visiting friends when we were teens. I’m sure they were willing, he looks like Brad Pitt! At least you’re not a peeping Tom now!

    • #17 by Tom Baker on April 17, 2012 - 2:53 PM

      And your friends keep quiet about it? A few of my sister’s friends knew what I was doing and I believe a few pretending to be asleep also posed. No, not a peeping Tom anymore.

      • #18 by savesprinkles1234 on April 18, 2012 - 11:28 AM

        Yep, all of my friends had a crush on my brother! He didn’t tell me until years later that he had been with several of them! THey all kept quiet about it. I guess so I wouldn’t be weirded out by it. My lil bro used to be quite the stud. Now he’s a quiet family man with a sweet wife and daughter.

  8. #21 by koisevilla on April 17, 2012 - 1:56 PM

    peeping TOM hahahah nice one! :D i’m surprised you did not volunteer to star in a porn movie or something… or perhaps create a video scandal hahaha just kidding :D

    • #22 by Tom Baker on April 17, 2012 - 2:00 PM

      That would be exhibitionism and I was much more voyeur than exhibitionist! No porn movies for me, thank you. And I never wanted to hurt anyone. Just have something to look at.

  9. #24 by emmmmerz on April 17, 2012 - 12:30 PM

    Now I am trying to remember what friends had brothers growing up xD

    BTW, I *AM* alive, just really busy doing a ton of stuff irl for my son’s birthday party this Saturday, so not sure how much I’ll be posting. I will be caught up by Wednesday next week at the latest tho. Just as an FYI.

    • #25 by Tom Baker on April 17, 2012 - 12:37 PM

      You should always look in closets, under beds and be sure not to be a sound sleeper and always wear underwear to bed when there are teenage boys in the house. Mothers of teen boys with older sisters be warned.

      Take your time. It is all geared toward your own pace. There is no rush as long as you are finished before Dec. 31st!

      • #26 by emmmmerz on April 17, 2012 - 12:41 PM

        Shouldn’t it just be mothers of mixed gender children?

        One very good friend had an older brother, and man, I know he spied on us, we were just usually boring xD

        Good to know. Really enjoying the process!

        • #27 by Tom Baker on April 17, 2012 - 12:44 PM

          Yes, I meant to say mothers who have teens of both sexes.

  10. #28 by Vanessa Chapman on April 17, 2012 - 11:09 AM

    That was a very honest admission, good for you, you must have worried a bit about how people would react to that admission. At least you didn’t do worse by trying to circulate or sell the images and recordings on to others (or if you did, I don’t want to know about it!). What I mostly got away with when I was a teenager was not going to school, well I did go to school, but I rarely completed a full week, I hated school so would just take days off all the time, sometimes whole weeks off and I managed to get away with it! I think schools are much more on top of that sort of thing these days, so I don’t think I’d have got away with that if I was at school now.

    • #29 by Tom Baker on April 17, 2012 - 11:18 AM

      Whole weeks at a time. That is amazing. I kinda liked school though. Just not the homework.

      I’ve made several admissions to this fact before on the blog so it was easier to post again but yes, I am always worried about how I may be perceived and I still checked this morning to see if I lost any followers. I will check again tonight.

      There is a suggestion I could make that would almost guarantee a loss but unless you ask, I won’t volunteer the info. And no, I never sold any or posted online or anything like that. In fact I destroyed all the negatives and most of the photos. Most!

  11. #30 by Sofia on April 17, 2012 - 9:45 AM

    To watch and be watch is such a turn-on if done with the right people. :)

    • #31 by Tom Baker on April 17, 2012 - 9:59 AM

      My wife is the right person!

      • #32 by Sofia on April 17, 2012 - 10:12 AM

        Awesome!!! It’s fun to be with your One. :)

  12. #33 by everything L&L on April 17, 2012 - 9:13 AM

    I think all teenege boys did this. I hope that you grew out of voyeurism.

    • #34 by Tom Baker on April 17, 2012 - 9:17 AM

      I grew out of spying but I channel the voyeur in me to get into people’s minds and get to be friends. I like people.

  13. #35 by AnonymousBurn on April 17, 2012 - 9:09 AM

    Wow. Honesty is such a humbling thing sometimes. I hope you can breathe easy.

  14. #37 by veehcirra on April 17, 2012 - 8:42 AM

    There is something totally great about being honest…though it’s kinda at the same time…”Peeping Tom” now that just made me chuckle..

    • #38 by Tom Baker on April 17, 2012 - 10:00 AM

      Yes there is and I was hoping at least one person would at least smile at the Tom reference!

  15. #39 by Cherlyn on April 17, 2012 - 8:15 AM

    I figured you’d answer that. By the way, i love Bluejellybeans comment, too funny!

    Thank you for the honesty Tom :) I love the clip you showed, Porky’s is such a funny movie.

    • #40 by Tom Baker on April 17, 2012 - 8:23 AM

      I went looking for peeping tom images and could not find anything good. Images from Porky’s were among those I did not like but I remembered the shower scene and it made me remember the scene from the Principal’s office. I watched it and almost fell off my chair and the muscles in the back of my head and my face hurt the next day. It was an obvious choice to include it. Thanks for being a friend and I hope things are better for you and your family.

      I think I need to watch Talented Mr. Ripley again.

  16. #41 by mynakedbokkie on April 17, 2012 - 4:37 AM

    Haha. I wander if any of them would ever read this?

    • #42 by Tom Baker on April 17, 2012 - 10:03 AM

      Well, let’s hope not! I’m not sure if one did though. I’m more worried about my sister than her friends. Her I really fear!

  17. #43 by Bluejellybeans on April 17, 2012 - 4:31 AM

    See? That’s why your nick is Mr Ripley… ;)

    • #44 by Tom Baker on April 17, 2012 - 10:04 AM

      Okay Gi, I accept the nickname wholeheartedly. I guess I did have a talent.

  18. #45 by PM on April 17, 2012 - 4:11 AM

    what do you know the name fits! :lol: i think young boys have a tendency towards these things. explains the popularity of porn right?

    • #46 by Tom Baker on April 17, 2012 - 10:07 AM

      Yes I do think most do but I really took it to another level. I was really very bold in the things I did.

  19. #47 by theferkel on April 17, 2012 - 1:38 AM

    So cool! You remind me of one of those night owls sitting on a tree, trying to see all :))

    • #48 by Tom Baker on April 17, 2012 - 10:34 AM

      No, I didn’t need to go anywhere really. My sister’s friends filled our house most weekends. I was so good at what I did, I could have opened a school. Horrible ain’t it?

      • #49 by theferkel on April 17, 2012 - 12:22 PM

        Not really! Don’t put yourself down for it. We all did something we thought was thrilling when we were little.

        • #50 by Tom Baker on April 17, 2012 - 12:30 PM

          I was young but I was never little (smile).

          • #51 by theferkel on April 17, 2012 - 1:38 PM

            ROFL! Modesty ain’t a trait for ya’ (as the rednecks say)

          • #52 by Tom Baker on April 17, 2012 - 1:40 PM

            Pleading the 5th.

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